From: Sango, Central Africa
Source: Sango (Central African Republic, DRC, Chad) oral-tradition proverb (Da so a molengue ake da, makelele ake da) — "African Proverb of the Month," June 2018 (afriprov.tangaza.ac.ke); also in "A Collection of 100 Sango Proverbs and Wise Sayings" by Laur Mwepu (afriprov.tangaza.ac.ke)
The source explains it: quarreling, disagreements, open confrontations and noise in the house are part of life
. The wording of the meaning is ours.