Banihupula kwa misebezi hakuciwa banilibala

They remember me for work but forget me when it comes to eating.

What it means
The speaker is called when there is work to do and forgotten when there is food to share. The proverb is a complaint about being used without being acknowledged for what one has contributed.
Lozi · Southern Africa
Source and context
From: Lozi, Southern Africa
Source: Lozi/Siluyana (Zambia) oral-tradition proverb (Banihupula kwa misebezi hakuciwa banilibala); documented in Sheila Siwela, "Indigenous Motivational and Value Statements" (2005) and Mukumbuta Lisimba, "Kongo Proverbs and the Origins of Bantu Wisdom," via Zambian Translators International

The source explains it: All people need to be acknowledged and respected for what they have contributed.. The wording of the meaning is ours.